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I love it when my kids are good at something I am not good at. Not only is it fun to watch (wow! I put that in the world!) but it’s also reassuring. Certain things just are innate, and what they don’t have may not even be my fault.
I think this is why parents love teaching kids a second language. But now I’m seeing there could be lots of things — it’s just that none of those things are in school.
I mean, we all learn the stuff in school so there’s no magic to it. The magic is the kid picking something up on their own.
Penelope
That’s a really good answer from your son. I wonder what the background is for his response. I would imagine he got similar questions as you regarding schooling previously and got a similar response when he replied that he didn’t go to school or he was being home schooled. However he decided to come up with a clever yet truthful answer rather than muddling through or avoiding the issue. Also I think it’s pretty amazing the assumptions we all make regarding other people based on our own experiences and what’s considered the norm.
He may be wise beyond his years. You should hear some of the things homeschooled kids say. “We don’t do school. We just play all the time,” or worse!
Probably the best thing about home schooling is the opportunity it affords for us to learn from our kids.
It’s a beautiful mutual process if you are open to it. It’s great that you already have realized this.
It’s like when you’re an adult everyone always asks what you do for a job! it’s because our identities are so closely tied in with the work we do.
who you’re friends with is a bit more subtle.
So as an experiment I force people into disclosing to me by asking probing questions right off the gate. Then I smile.
And surprisingly it works!
I think people want to be known but we’re lazy and just default to the whether or work.
Also, what is he doing? looks like he’s pushing buttons in an old phone or huge calculator posted on the wall.
The pop machine. He loves the pop machine. It’s like a video game to him — watching the bottles fall from the shelves.
Penelope
I see it now. Funny.
ps. you’re probably the only mom I know that gushes about her kids, and sometimes disclose how hard it is to be a parent and figure out how to do it without being annoying at both.
i love that he’s giving the finger (inadvertently of course) in this photo on the socializing post :)
I think you’re truly a Midwesterner now that you’ve said “pop” instead of soda. :)
being oot and aboot in the community, we’ve gotten this a lot. if you say “we’re homeschoolers” you often invite a free, unrequested lecture (usually from the elderly, who correlate with the nosy) about why hs’ing is a bad choice.
here’s our avoidance script:
“why aren’t you in school today, young man?”
“we have a teachers’ institute day.”
“what school do you go to?”
“hogwarts.”
haha! hearted!