Your sons are so different and yet they (each in their own way) teach you so much about yourself.

I found this post to be really interesting. I feel like I have an understanding of myself that I didn’t have before. I had to read it several times to understand why I couldn’t relate until I figured it out and that it applied to me as well.

As an adult I spent 10 + years completely finding myself. I was able to do this because I didn’t get married, didn’t have kids and didn’t own a house. I had no obligations financial or personal so I was free to do what I wanted. I worked part time, moved 3000 miles across the country and basically spent my free time doing things I wanted to do. Now as an adult I am very happy and I find making career decisions come very easily. I think though it has a lot to do with many years of “practicing acting on that knowledge” of what I should be doing.