My son asked me if I could make cookies with him.
I told him I was on a coaching call and to wait fifteen minutes.
He threw a fit and said I always tell him to wait fifteen minutes.
After the call I went downstairs and he was making his own cupcakes.
I thought, Oh my god he used the mixer without me. I told him that I'm blown away that he did it all by himself.
This is unschooling. If I laid out curricula for him then neither of us would be surprised by the choices he made. He would be doing my choices instead.