The picture is the spot on my elementary school playground where I hid at recess, because I was craving alone time. Last month, I went back to the playground, thinking it would be heartbreaking or something. But really, the corner still felt cozy.

I am bad at making friends so I worry that I will not do enough to enable my sons to make friends. I shouldn't worry because I know I could leave my son in a playground full of kids and he'd make a friend while I'm hiding in the corner.

But then I realized that kids don't exchange phone numbers. And moms don't just give out phone numbers to strangers who like how their children play together. So I started sitting with the moms, trying to charm them, but it's a lot of work for me. I'd get the phone number but I couldn't cope with follow-through. Being charming twice in one week is too much.

So now I don't talk to the moms, but I try to figure out where they go. This is easier with homeschool parents because they put their path on a mailing list. I try to just show up so much that my son is familiar, and he is the charming type, so they like him, and eventually he scores a phone number. And I can still hide in a corner.