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MichaelG, there are quite a few more spelling errors than that. Please catch all of them at once, as it is rather anticlimactic to be spelling cop commenter número uno and only catch one out of quite a stringer of them.
Can someone please explain to me the obsession with correcting spelling errors? Great ideas do not need to be spelled properly, and I am here to hear ideas. This is not school, or a subscription, or even a medical journal. Nobody gets a medal for pointing out spelling errors. It is rank and reeks of childish one-upping games.
Haha Rose, I thought the same thing. In this digital age where ideas and thoughts can be published almost as soon as they are generated, I’ve come to expect (and accept) Typos as commonplace.
On another note, I actually thought monty would be a great new slang word for money, similar to Moola, Dough etc (maybe it already is?).
Well, I do actually care when there are a ton of spelling errors. I try to limit each post to one. That seems like a goal I should be able to hit.
Penelope
Some of Penelope’s posts have already been up for years. It’s not just casual spit-it-out-who-cares writing. This is being published for a large audience and will last a long time. Why not make it as good as you can?
I have a blog of my own and welcome anyone who points out errors. It’s not an attempt to one-up anyone. It’s just that sadly-neglected idea of doing a quality job.
We suffered from the same money problems – which we realized were really symptoms of other problems (which could be an entire post unto itself, I suppose) – and getting rid of our credit cards (deep breath, deep breath) and getting on a budget were the best things we ever did. It’s not easy to change 40+ years of bad financial (and other- ahem) habits, but it is SOOO worth it! No more check-writing roulette or holding my breath as I hand over my debit card, wondering if there is enough $ in the account. Waaaaay too stressful. We chose to share our “epiphany” with our young kids in the hope that they won’t make the same mistakes we did, and learned together about how to budget, and the importance of living within one’s means. It’s been tough, but having them on board and “in the know” makes things a lot easier, because they understand that if they want to continue to stay on their insanely-expensive-but-oh-so-worth-it-swim-team and do all their other fun activities, we can’t go to 5 Guys every night, get their dolls’ ears pierced (!), or buy everything that So-and-So has. So yes, they not only see us modeling this behavior, but they are living it themselves. Thanks so much for another great post.
Money can’t solve when I’m feeling down because of hormones. That’s when I know it’s chemical. I ask myself if I can buy myself out of it. And if the answer is no, then I eat instead. (haha).
On a side note: I’m so disappointed that you are missing out on all those airline points/hotel points. I do the travel hacking hobby and have flown to Italy in business class on points.
I love this quote by Alfie Kohn, it’s so simple but it helped me change my thinking a few years ago.
“Children learn how to make good decisions by making decisions, not by following directions.”
If your children are learning money lessons now by making real decisions about how they are spending or saving whatever money you give them, then that is a more powerful tool than observing behavior which is also quite powerful.
I actually think prepaid cards are a genius way to teach kids about finances. It teaches them money is finite but renewable. It helps them connect money to work (well, if you help them), and it helps them connect money to the problems that money can and cannot actually help them solve.
I have exactly the same problem. I make 4 times the median income in my town and it’s always gone. I think if the structure is in place, good health and relationships, money enhances life. If the structure isn’t there, money cannot fix it and might make it worse. When I was single and dating, I hid my income as long as possible. After they found out what I made most guys either (a) wanted me as their sugar mama, or (b) constantly felt inferior to me in a way that I could not fix. So I thought I was coming up with something new, but it turns out that it falls under “sex” which you already said :)
The fact that you vocalize money decisions both before and after you make them (good or bad) THAT is a teacher in and of itself.
Especially if they can have input in the discussion (or rant).
Jeff and I made poor financial decisions early on in our marriage (and before) that had longterm ramifications.
They became a part of our family’s history, and when the kids were old enough to grasp it, we shared how those decisions affect our decisions now.
We involve them in choices – if only as part of the discussion.
My parents NEVER talked about money in front of me. I was clueless about disciplining myself in the arena of money. I learned by making my own choices and by the effects of those choices.
I was a slow learner.
BUT I get it now. And my daughter who supports herself is leaps and bounds ahead of me at her age. I’m hoping the other two will also manage their finances wisely.
A parent’s transparency is a powerful tool.
Wait…you’re doing sponsored posts now?? Ouch.